Secondary's Bill of Rights courtesy of polymomo. The whole thing kind of reminds me of the reason the Secondary's Bill if Rights that was written by Veaux and one of his partners, i forget her name because people didn't treat the "secondary" partners like humans, but like something disposable that could be thrown out on a whim. I'm super skeptical of triads. This includes possibly removing posts asking how to find "a third" or "a unicorn. It's really nice to see the big issues for "Unicorns" put into words. The unicorn ends up essentially being secondary for both people where the primary couple gets to set all the rules and the unicorn has no rights. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email.
That said, these are the set rules:
Share On sms Share On sms. I feel that the "soft triad" arrangement can work and be ethical for all involved, but the couple MUST be honest and upfront and willing to lose potential partners due to limitations they have. Everything has to start with that. Conversely, I started "dating a couple" and would get texts like, it's N's birthday, want to come over and surprise him. But it's still there, from blatant rules to whispering subtleties in interactions. If one member of the couple wants to have nothing to do with you, wants no contact or communication with you, or seems reluctant to even acknowledge your existence, take this as a warning sign. Click to share on Twitter Opens in new window Click to share on Facebook Opens in new window Click to email this to a friend Opens in new window.